The Help – Kathryn Stockett
“Three ordinary women are about to take one extraordinary step…
Twenty-two-year-old Skeeter has just returned home after graduating from Ole Miss. She may have a degree, but it is 1962, Mississippi, and her mother will not be happy till Skeeter has a ring on her finger. Skeeter would normally find solace with her beloved maid Constantine, the woman who raised her, but Constantine has disappeared and no one will tell Skeeter where she has gone.
Aibileen is a black maid, a wise, regal woman raising her seventeenth white child. Something has shifted inside her after the loss of her own son, who died while his bosses looked the other way. She is devoted to the little girl she looks after, though she knows both their hearts may be broken.
Minny, Aibileen’s best friend, is short, fat, and perhaps the sassiest woman in Mississippi. She can cook like nobody’s business, but she can’t mind her tongue, so she’s lost yet another job. Minny finally finds a position working for someone too new to town to know her reputation. But her new boss has secrets of her own.
Seemingly as different from one another as can be, these women will nonetheless come together for a clandestine project that will put them all at risk. And why? Because they are suffocating within the lines that define their town and their times. And sometimes lines are made to be crossed.”
I really loved this book, which is a surprise because when this book first came out I wasn’t really drawn to the book cover. I know, how vain of me. I really wasn’t sure if I’d be interested. However, I’ve only heard great reviews of the book and when one of the Goodreads groups decided to have it as a group read, I decided to give it a try.
This book was really up my alley. One of the things that gets me real riled up to the core is race discrimination/superiority. This certainly plays a big part in the book and it’s one of the things that got me hooked to the story. Another thing that I found fascinating was the relationships between the black maids and the white children they raised. I found it saddening that they bonded like mother and daughter but that ultimately, a lot of times, that bond breaks and the white child grows up to conform to the white society’s standards.
Aibileen’s relationship with her seventeenth white child was very heart-wrenching. I really felt for Aibileen towards the end because as I read along, she was a better mom to this child than the white mom. She raised her and tried to teach her tolerance, with the hope that this white child will grow up to be different and better than her white elders.
I liked the three main characters of Skeeter, Aibileen, and Minny. I loved that Skeeter was of a different mind than her childhood friends. Doing what she was going with the black maids, in secret, in the 60’s, in Mississippi, I admired her moxie to be different. Although it wasn’t easy to slowly lose her intolerant friends and start to see her society for what it was, she gradually gained the confidence in herself that she didn’t have initially. And I’m glad she was strong enough to refuse getting married to her boyfriend. I didn’t have a good feeling about him anyway from the get go. He seemed like a nice enough guy but he didn’t have the type of balls to be with someone like Skeeter.
Minny was interesting as well. She was a strong woman in her own right, but what baffled me was why she stayed with her abusive husband and cowered to him. That didn’t make sense to me.
Although there were certainly white characters in this book that I wanted to hurt quite badly, I’m glad there were also some that were redeeming.
Overall, I thought this was a great book that looked at relationships between black and white that I never really focused on before. It was heart-wrenching, funny, and infuriating, but it all worked together in this book.
I think the rights were just bought to make this into a movie. If it happens, I’d definitely go and see it.
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